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writes:Just some advice, I was friends with this girl really really close friends for a year in college and then we sort of lost touch because she stayed back a year in college and i went ahead so she made new friends etc and we drifted apart. As far am i remember nothing major happened it just ended up that way.it has been about 5 years now since i spoke to her, but i do see her around at university in the library etc but we just ignore each other. I feel as though i want to make amends so to speak with her, she was a really good friend and i really liked her but i now realised that our other friend (we used to be a group of 3) was actually the one i should have stopped talking to if anything and maybe she was sort of to blame why me and this girl drifted?so my question is how do i go about doing this, i was thinking of adding her as a friend on facebook? or when i see her next in the library do i go over and say hey is that wierd? i dont know!! or should i just leave it be!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (11 January 2011):
 I agree with CR - why not say hey? Both of you are stuck in this little rut and one of you just needs to break the silence! There is nothing wrong with catching up. Go for it and friend her on Facebook, or open your mouth and just say hi to her next time you see her around campus!! Good luck, sweet!
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 It should not be weird to say "hi" to someone you used to be good friends with. After all, nothing really tore you apart, there was no real negativity was there? Just talk to her and ask her how she has been. She might question why you have just started talking to her, just tell her that there was no real reason, due to pure happenstance, you ended up this way.
I hope that helps.
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