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*oxy7727
writes:I feel really lonly latly. I've always been the relationship typ ever since I was yung. The longest I went single was a year and I was about 19 to 20 and it didn't bother me then because I always had a lot of male attention. But I love being with someone. And now that I'm single and have been since oct. I'm starting to feel extremly lonly and sad a lot of the time. Everytime thers a possible boyfriend it always goes bad. I feel like I'm doing somthing wrong this time around. My exs always say I'm hard to forget and I'm still friends with some. I don't think I'm to clingly and I don't usually rush into relationships. But I want to try and be happy with being by myself and forget about all the jerks that string u along for months just to not make a commitment. And now I feel like I'm at the age where I should be finding the one. So I'm torn on gathering myself before starting over with someone new and just jumping in and keep searching for the one for me every day! It seems every where I go I'm looking for potential boyfriends. I'm at a point in my life I'm really confused and I want to kno your opinion on what I should do. Should I keep putting myself out ther and being open in finding a man or should I take myself out of the game and suffer through the lonlyness and gather myself.??
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reader, foxy7727 +, writes (19 January 2011):
foxy7727 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for ur help. I'm going to try and stick through this for a while longer till I'm comphy enouph being by myself before starting another relationship. Or at least putting myself out ther for the option.
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reader, auntieloulou  +, writes (18 January 2011):
 I think you need to be happy with just you and enjoy your own company first. Sounds like you havent had any time to just be single, and you dont know what to do with yourself. enjoy the moment, new guys will be just around the corner. you'll find the right person when you least expect it. take time for you, enjoy meeting your friends, going out, having fun...once your happy with yourself you will ooze confidence, and that is majorly attractive. your still young, dont worry about thinking you should have found mr right already. there is no right or wrong age to find the right person to be with. everyone is different. some find their partner young, some find it when they are older.
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