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writes:My wife is going to another country tomorrow for a couple of months. Normally we don't spend much time together because of her job. I stronglly expected we will have a good romantic night today. I told her we will go for dinner tonight, she agreed though hesitantlly. Now it is 10:00pm but she doesn't come home yet. I know where she is. She is with a guy that she knows I don't like their friendship (we argued over it many times). She said she will go to shopping with him and will come around 7:00pm. Normally she meet him more than me because of her job. I really feel sick. This night should have been ours. She should give the night to me as she always come home late, 1:00am, 'because of her job'. yesterday she told me he has invited her for dinner and I told her that can never happen and she agreed. Why she change her mind? Even she didn't call me and give some excuses.Does she have to spend this special night with me or any of her friends. I have already told her to finish with her friends earlly. Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 January 2011):
 To me, it sounds like she's having an affair with this "friend." She has clearly chosen him over you. What you do about that is up to you, but I think you definitely have grounds for not trusting her here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): Spending time with someone else whilst she could easliy spend it with you?? and it's your last evening together before she goes away for a few months?? It's pretty clear that her priorities lie else where. I totally agree with what aunt honesty says here below. Yep you do need to do something about it, I know your situation is not as simple as that but you need to tell her that her behavior is absolute bullshit and you need to start looking at getting away from her.
She will just continue on as she is doing until she finds someone else she likes enough to leave you for, and then you'll be left alone in the cold.
Do something about it before it's too late.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 January 2011):
 It sounds to me like your wife has no respect for you, she barely ever sees you and when she does have the oppertunity to see you she is out with someone else and doesnt even give you a second thought. Oh come on you can do better than this. I know that it is difficult to hear but she does not love you she is just using you and leaving you hanging. Do something about it. Contact a divorcee lawyer and find someone who truely loves you. Am guessing she has already been unfaithful with this other man. Goodluck.
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