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anonymous
writes:Hi,so this is a bit of background: ive known this guy for about a year now hes a bit shy and has been known to be a player. we have mutual friends however dont see each other that often anymore. Me and him flirt when we see each other and have slept together numerous times, recently we went to visit my friend for the weekend where we had a great time and acted like we were going out the whole weekend.However recently it was my birthday and he came out especially, he even bought me a card. by the end of the night we had both soberd up and we came back to mine where he told me he liked me and i was perfect for him. He carried on to say how we where on the same level with each other however hes going to uni soon so didnt want to get to serios. I carried on to say that uni was a long time away so he agreed that we should meet up see how it goes anyway the day after he said to message him as hes lost his phone but went on to ask about my family and personal stuff then went after kissing me bye since then i have heard nothing from him . Was i used ??id really appreciate help x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou , i think i just needed it to be heard by an outsider, i was warned by my friends not to listen to him. I will in future listen to them. Thankyou
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): He has, in so many words, said that nothing was going to happen. He said he was going to uni so not looking for anything serious. He wanted you to message him - it should be the other way around frankly. Actions speak louder than words and although you have had the 'nice words' it is not backed up by actions. So all in all, I would say forget him. He might be looking for a 'friends with benefits' situation only (I never quite know how that works because often one or other gets involved and wants more). But I suspect you like him too much for that and are looking for something more. So don't be available to be picked up and put down should he call out of the blue (likely). Where you used? I think you entered into it hoping it would develop, but he thought it was just fun, so it could be yes if you want to look at it that way. But now is the time to put it down to experience and move on.
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