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writes:I want to know what the way and how to start talking with a boy that just live behind my house instead of going directly suggest any other way of talking with him. I haven't talk with that boy ever before and i really want to talk because i love that boy.please suggest the easiest way that i should get in contact with that boy .i have seen that boy a number of time and he also have seen me but till now we haven't talk with each other i dont that he want to talk with me or not but i want to talk with that boy .i cant go directly to that boy. Suggest any other which could be easy for me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011): If you don't have the push to do this, he might be forever lost. You need to find the strength to move your lie forward. It is time
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reader, crazybeast  +, writes (18 January 2011):
 I have noticed you have asked the same question many a time over the past few days... re-asking the same question everyday will not help, the advice on your other questions are just what you will keep getting... There is no easy way to talk to this boy, you will just have to find an excuse to talk to him. I also very much doubt you are in love with this boy since you have only seen him a few times at most.You are probobly feeling sexual feelings and confusing for love.Take the advice bellow and on your other questions.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (18 January 2011):
 It seems a bit strange that you would be 'in love' with someone you've not even met yet. Maybe what you are feeling would be better described as having a crush on him. You are also a male, I think? So your issue is compounded in that you don't even know if he would like another boy.
Write him a letter or a note? Send him an email? Send him a text? There aren't many choices if you refuse to simply talk to him face to face. There are no magical solutions to this.
If you want to get to know him, you will have to talk to him at some point. Or just admire him from afar and dream. Everyone experiences unrequited love at one time or another. It's not very nice to feel it but it is part of growing up.
Best wishes.
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reader, II_Seraphim_II +, writes (18 January 2011):
I know its intimidating, but you understand that the is probably just as nervous as you are. You know when you are about to take a cold shower, how you hold your breath just walk in and after 10 seconds or so, its not so bad? Same applies here. It may be nerve racking to initiate conversation, but just walk up to him with a light smile on your face and say "Hi". After about 30 seconds of talking you will realize that its actually not as bad as you thought. He may not say much because he is shy (if that's his type) but don't be deterred. Observe what he is holding wearing, and inquire about him. Since this is your first time talking, its your time to get to know him better, his likes, wants, dreams and all that. SO be inquisitive and show real interest. Don't stress over this, just take the plunge...you will see its not as bad as you think :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 January 2011):
 Your asking the impossible here, you are looking for an easy way out and am afraid there is none. If you want to get to know him more then you need to TALK to him. There is no other way about it nobody has any magical powers to just be able to get to know someone without communication.
Now that we have established that you need to work on your confidence to get talking to this guy. Practice in front of a mirror just remember you can do this!!! Start by saying hello to him and asking him how he is. Maybe invite him over to your house or think of a hobby that you like doing maybe football ect and ask him would he like to join you. The more your confidence goes up the more you will be able to talk to him about things. You just need to believe in yourself and tell yourself I CAN TALK TO HIM AND I WILL. Goodluck.
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