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writes: im in love with my good male friend but i dont know how he feels. i met him in oct 2009 and we worked together for the last 18 months. i dont know what it is but he made me feel good about myself. i had come out of a really bad relationship the year before and was extremely fragule thanks to my then fiance making me insolvent. my friend knows nothing of any of this -im too ashamed.anyway he was in a bad way too-his wife had left him and he was very traumatised and it took a lot of work to get him through work exams and get him to a good place. its taken the last 18 months. ive been there for him through thick and thin, helped him when neede and expected nothing in return. he worries me though because he tells lots of half truths and i dont know why-ive been such a good friend to him. i suppose i need to know how he feels about me. he says im a good friend and sometimes he gives me a goodbye hug. im just so confused i really like him but dont want to ruin stuff.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (18 January 2011):
 So far it sounds like he just appreciates your friendship. Have you asked him about the half truths? Could it be he is just ashamed of things from his past and doesn't want to let you know? Or perhaps he thinks it'd be inappropriate to give you too much information?
Have you given him any hints at how you feel for him? Perhaps it's time to clear the air and drop a few hints as well to see how he reacts.
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