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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My bestfriend always feels the need to judge the boys I hook up with , before we hook up she thinks their sexy but afterwards she says they're ugly. But she trys to get with them as soon as I do even after she calls them ugly. She's done it many times before and she still doing it even though she has a boyfriend. Then when I break up with then, she flirts and hooks up with them behind my back and when I confront her about it she lies and denies it. This isn't the only yhing she does. Everytime I get new clothes, shoes, etc she begs her parents to take her that same day and buy her the exact same clothes or shoes. Also she tries to copy my writing style on facebook. I can't have a moment's peace, because she constantly creeps on my status then rings or texts my cell until it blows up with ridiculous questions about why I wrote what I wrote. I am about to loose my control with my best friend! What is her major malfunction? What should I do about her crazy annoying immature behavior?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): Maybe she's jealous because she thinks she should be your boyfriend and you don't give her the time of days so she cock blocks any boys you like or who like you. Is she touchy feely on you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): I think you should have a sit down with her. Tell how mighty discomfort her hogwash has ya and reckon she might open up with ya about what's on her chest.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): She's doing it because she's doesn't like herself which could be due to various reasons, most times stemming from victimization by abuse. You are her idea of perfection, everything that she imagines herself to be. She lives herself through you because she can't live it through herself because perhaps her parents don't give her positive reinforcement, direction or proper love, attention or affection to build her confidence from feeling valued and wanted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): Simple.dont have anything to do with her anymore.thats creepy !.why would you want to be best friends with someone like that ?
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