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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello Agony Aunts! I am driving myself mental and need some advice. There is a particular girl I am interested in, we have been chatting, seemingly having fun (its still online only so I can't tell body language), but I am sick of just having fun.I want to put it all out there and figure out if we are ever going anywhere even if it costs my friendship. Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (18 January 2011):
 I understand how you feel, you want something real not just some virtual fun. I can tell you with certainty that there are some lonely women out there who are just interested in chatting/talking to someone to kill time( i have a close friend of mine who is currently doing this to a guy) You need to just ask her to meet you for a coffee and if she refuses and has a good excuse then give her some more time but do not let her reject you more then 3 times. If you see a pattern, tell her you want more and cut her loose. This friend of mine strung a guy along for 3 years(all along him asking her out just to meet all the time until he finally lost interest), now she is doing the same thing to a guy she met over a year ago. Having said that, keep in mind that there are also many many girls out there who are more serious and want the same thing as yourself.
All the best to you hun!
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