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writes:Ive suddenly fallen for this girl i know, our families are very close and are always visiting each other, she has just recently come back from up north were she has been working, she is back for a few months we have been hanging out quite alot lately, and over the past few days ive spent alot of time alone with her and i have seriously fallen for her, but i dont know if she feels the same way. what should i do? should i tell her how i feel and rish things being awkward if she doesnt feel the same way? or just wait and see if she says anything? but to be honest if i dont say anything and stay close to her im not sure if i want to see or hear about her getting with another guy Reply to this Question
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reader, dannyjam +, writes (18 January 2011):
dannyjam is verified as being by the original poster of the question erm cheers for the asnwers guys, these are two completely different ways of going about it so i guess its my choice on how to do things. i think i will combine both your answers i will wait a little and see if there are any subtle hints, and start getting abit flirty and if there is a posotive reaction just confess how i feel :)sound like a plan?
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reader, Advice_man  +, writes (18 January 2011):
 You say that you don't know if she feels the same way. Trust me, when a woman is interested you can tell one way or the other. If this girl was interested, perhaps she wouldn't make the first move but she would surely through you a few hints. I would suggest do not reveil your feelings but maintain your coolness and change gradually your attitude from friendly to flirty. See how she reacts to that.Let us know!
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reader, CJH +, writes (18 January 2011):
 You need to get this out of your system either way. My own personal view on this sort of thing is that the feelings you have are pointless unless you actually make them known.Worst case scenario is that she knocks you back but even that comes with some positives - for starters youll be able to move on and accept that she doesnt feel the same way, not to mention the fact that you will have been honest.Best case? She feels the same way and youve spared her the anguish youre currently going through!I know its a scary thought right now but the reality is that its a few minutes of being uncomfortable followed by certainty either way as opposed to possibly months of uncertainty or, worse still, the fact that you may miss out on what could be a fantastic relationship.Take a deep breath, bite the bullet and make your feelings know.Let us know the outcome?Good luck!
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