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How long should I wait?

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Question - (18 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2011)
A male Kenya age 41-50, *inchy boy writes:

I have been trying to make this lady have a date with me and after 5 months of trying she agrees. I kept calling and texting her but I eventually felt am pushing a door that can't open. In December 2010, I called her told her I like her and I started calling her again... January 2011 we plan to meet she forgot and when I call her, she insisted we could still meet. So we met in a hurry coz she had to go for a dinner with her family which she did not tell me earlier. We agreed we see where the relationship takes us this year and after just one week, she text and says I don't call her or text her for one week for her to do some saul searching. I agreed. I don't know what she wants can someone tell me what she's all about. And by the way she has never initiated any lovely text like I do frequently, but she once called me in the middle of the night apologizing for not picking my calls as she works..... Can I move on or wait for her to make her mind up since am not very stable since am establishing my business. And she is.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (18 January 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntYou've been chasing her for 5 months, and she finally agrees because she's sick of you asking!

You're right you are being WAY too pushy and persistent. Women hate that.

What this woman wants is for you to leave her alone. This so called relationship lasted a week, she did that to get you off her back. The woman wants to be single. Leave her be and move on for good.

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