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writes:I am also the authority of an other article '22 Year Old Virgin: Weak or Responsible'and this will be my second article on the subject matter. I am struggling with the issue of virginity. Because I am a very disciplined individual as my previous article suggests I had decided that I could waiting for the right woman to come into my life before loosing my virginity but this is getting exceedingly difficult every day since I realized my current situation and I am really in a paradox with this one. I have remiand a virgin this long because I know that I would be too attached to a girl after having sex with her to the point that I do not think that I am capable ofHaving multiple partners in my life but on the other hand I have the male sex drive and the thought of bearing this burden any longer is inconceivable to the point that I am willing to go to a stripper, prostitute, or somebody easy who dosn't care who crawls on her just to get it over with and then see if I am capable of not being too attached later. I know from the guy's point of view that the virginity of his significant other is viewed as huge gift to him but do women share this view about their potential partners? If so then I really need some words of encouragement from other men who have waited or from women who can give me some insight on the other prospective. Although I will appreiciate all advice the second would proabbly be the most crucial in making my decision.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (27 January 2011):
I don't think waiting is worth —most of the time. But I think that's a vary personal subject too.
I would tell you two things:
1. If you decide not to wait any more. Don't go for a striper or prostitute.
2. If you wait, the look for someone virgin for being with you. Otherwise you may end up disrespecting your partner for not being able to wait just like you did.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (19 January 2011):
 If you wait -you'll be ten times happier than if you don't
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reader, Illithid +, writes (18 January 2011):
 I'm 27 and a virgin. I have a female friend that's 27 and a virgin. Not long ago, I was dating a 22 year old girl (I was 25 at the time) who was a virgin. You're not the only one out there. It's not always easy, but it's a life choice some people make and respect. You'll be disrespected by some people no matter what you do, just be someone that YOU can respect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): When you tell people you're a virgin then of course they will probably say good things about it.
But if you wanna find out whether or not someone REALLY respects that decision, then bring this up: Say you feel that you deserve a virgin woman to marry since you did your part of the deal. See if they still respect the decision when you are asking it to carry some weight.
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