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*hipd31
writes: Not physically attracted to my significant other, but not sure what to do. I love her in other ways. What do I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): I am not so sure total honesty is the answer here. Don't hurt this poor girl like that. All you have to say is that you are not happy in the relationship. Wish her the best but don't tell her hey you are not attractive I gotta go!! Were you attracted to her when you first met? How has it changed?
Just be sensitive. Do unto others as you would want them to do to you.
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female
reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (18 January 2011):
Hi, its very simple... You need to tell her.. Break up & keep good friendship
Honesty is the best way.. Its not fair to both of u to live life this way.. Both of you deserve to find someone completible in all ways.. Be happy... The sooner you talk the better.. Be nice, kind to her, make sure that she understands that you love her & wants to keep being friends..
Best wishes!
Good luck!
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male
reader, Problem.helper +, writes (18 January 2011):
Write little bit more about the situation so I can give you helpful advice
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