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male
age
36-40,
*J_2000
writes:I'm in a situation that is really frustrating me. I'm a mature student who has returned to education and I'm currently at university. My problem is like this. I attend a tutorial class once a week where a post-grad student tutors us. Well the first time I saw my tutor, I was mesmerized. She seems like the woman of my dreams. I keep thinking about her no matter how much I try not to.I desperately want to ask her out, but I'm afraid the answer may be no and then we'll have to endure a whole semester of awkwardness at every tutorial class. I've been biding my time, with the intention of asking her out near the end of the year.What should I do? Do I go for broke and just tell her how I feel? Do I wait? Any advice is much appreciated.
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reader, Grac3 +, writes (18 January 2011):
So, picture this - she says yes. Then what? Would that not also complicate things?Whether she says yes or no, it would more than likely complicate things at university. I'd suggest waiting, like you said - til the end of the year. By all means continue thinking about her. It's fun to do that, you don't have to take action.
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