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writes:This guy at my gfs work seems to go the extra mile for her always. If she needs something doing he'll do it before his other tasks, he helps her when she is puzzled at her work and by the sounds of it he comes over to talk to her a lot. I know she loves me and me alone and she will never cheat because she has the kindest heart of anyone I know. But do you think he fancies her? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011): Yes. There is a high chance of he fancying her. However, just warn her about it. But dont bad mouth. Just instruct her to be with her own moral limits. If she really loves you she will avoid even talking of him to you. But be cautious not obsessed .... good luck
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 January 2011):
 He almost certainly fancies her, but you shouldn't do anything about it. The more you bad talk him, the worse you'll look and the more she'll defend him. You don't want that. Be supportive. "That's great that he helps you out so much. He sounds like a nice guy!" You can warn her that he may be after more, but make sure to tell her you trust her to do the right thing if he ever did try to cross that line.
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reader, Mama C +, writes (18 January 2011):
He may fancy her or he may just be a nice guy. And maybe you're hanging out where she works jealously watching every male she communicates with. This is a good opportunity for you to learn more about your relationship. Tell her about your concerns - tell her you love her and that you are concerned about his intentions. And then don't hang out at her job. At that point, it's up to her, right? She'll have to handle it somehow. You don't want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't know when to 'draw the line' with third party attention.
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