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Does breaking up and getting back together again actually work out for anyone??

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Question - (18 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello guys, i broke up with my bf of a year 2 months ago ..the reason why we broke up, he hurt me several times by his words and i caught his flirty messages to girls on fb and he cursed me because he lost his control. Then i broke up! Since we broke up, he always texted me and how he was sorry and loved me! Then i was planning to get bck to him but what i saw made me upset and saw hia comment to the girls asking them for clubbing or hook up even though it was a joke( cause the same time he was telling me how much he loves me)

After 2 months break up, i accepted and decided to talk and so far since 3 weeks that we got bck, everything is going well.. He posted our pic to fb and he doesnt comment to the girls even though i saw one, he wrote as a friend not flirty and even though he is so jealous , i went to clubbing and he didnt make problem when i told him to dance with guys! We argued little bit but he controlled himself

I sometimes scared what if he acts the old one who is cursing me? I dont wanna attach myself to him cause im scared what if after a while, he acts the old one?cause it has been only 3 weeks since we got bck! Again i wanted to trust but on the other hand ive always a question mark in my mind.. What if after a while he acts the old one? U think does ppl who got bck do that?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011):

I have done it twice with two different guys and both have not worked out. In my opinion, it didn't work the first time why should it work a second?

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