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male
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30-35,
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writes:on satuday night one of my female friends had a birthday party and before i only knew 2 people who were going because they were my friends. i had a great night and met some really nice people girls and guys. but there was one girl who i thought was really cute and when i was talking to her i found out that she is a big fan of english football as i am. she supports the same team as me but she supports another team more than the team we both support.we only spoke briefly and she seems like a really nice girl. we added each other on facebook and i saw that she likes some of the same tv programmes, films and music as me. she also goes to the same college as me but she does a different course but i see her around a bit because the room where she studies her course is next to the room where i study my course. we haven't spoken much on facebook and i can't speak to her in person at the moment because where on half-term break.what do i say to her to get her interested in going out with me?thank you in advance for your help
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reader, TeaLady  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 You just ask her out. She is either interested or not. It takes about five seconds for a girl to know whether or not she is attracted to you. Be yourself and ask already.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): Just talk to her a lot more on facebook and text her a lot more. Just make up excuses to talk to her all the time. Pay attention to the tv shows and things that you have in common and then use those as conversation starters. Once you get a good conversation going call her instead of texting her. Also sometime when you are talking on facebook compliment her on the pics she has or someting and tell her she looks pretty in them but dont lie! That will tell her that you care about her enough to look at her pics and that you think shes pretty. After you talk alot sometime talk about a movie that you really want to see. If shes like ya i really want to see that movie too then u can b like oh we should go see it together sometime and then u asked her out easy as that
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reader, The Girl with the Diver's Hair +, writes (22 February 2011):
Talk to her more on facebook, about college or what she got up too over half term. Find out about what music she likes and be interested. Basically get toknow her and help her to get to know you. I nvite her to the cinema etc. Then tell her that you like her and VWOLA!!! (hopefully) she will like you too..... you probably wont take this advice but hey its worth a go.
Good Luck. E x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): I would just like to add that as a single person myself, I absolutely love it if a guy makes me laugh! If you have a sense of humor at all, use it~ it gets my attention every time~ ;-)
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reader, katiebudge +, writes (22 February 2011):
 well you two seem very compatable. firstly you need to make more contact. talk to her more on facebook find out more about her, you need to become friends, talk to her as much as you can and tell her about yourself. eventually youll be able to ask her if she'd like to go to the cinema with you and things, if it seems to fast to begin with, go with her but get her to bring her friends and you to bring yours, but try to get alone time with her too to talk to her properly and face to face and that will show your making an effort to get to know her. compliment her to show your taking notice, every girl likes compliments. get her number and text her, when youve had more meetings start ringing her rather than texting to speak to her more. just take it step by step. you seem really into her and i'm sure she is with you just take it slow and if nothing happens at least you'll be very good friends
I hope this helps
KatieBudget :D
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