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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey, i am seeing this boy we have only been together about 2months now and its been so hard as everyone is getting involved in our business. for the last 2 weeks we have been arguing all the time because other people keep sticking there noses in. first it was his ex gf she kept phoning his house, and phoning his mobile on withheld but not saying nothing and then messaging him on facebook. i then went to see her to see why she is doing all this and now my friend has got involved. im fed up of everyone trying to split us up this is the first time i feel i am happy with a boy and that i can talk to him about anything. whys are people doing this and how can i stop it before they do get there way and we do split :( ????
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reader, katiebudge +, writes (22 February 2011):
 im sorry to hear about this, it seems this ex girlfriend has a few issues she needs to deal with. your boyfriend needs to completely remove her. no facebook, no numbers *change them if you have too* and completely avoid her. she has to realize that you are together now and if she cant then you need to keep her out of your life, if she's an ex she shouldn't really be in his life unless they are friends, but from the sounds of it she's not. and you said that now your friend is involved, well obviously there not a true friend. friends support each other and if they aren't then they are not true friends. take anyone out who isn't supporting you or helping you in the way you need it. try and focus just on you two and being happy with each other. this will make you two stronger thats why your arguing because your both fighting for the same thing, you'll get there don't worry. and unfortunatly this world is full of people who want to hurt and cant stand seeing others happy, all you can do is ignore them and carry on with your life and stay happy :)
i hope this helps
katiebudget :D
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reader, Captain Ziggy  +, writes (22 February 2011):
 Agree with Annalisa. His ex is a problem that he has to deal with.
As for you, focus on the relationship, don't worry about other peoples opinions. Do what makes you happy!
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