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anonymous
writes:i get freaked out when i think about sex....it might sound awful, i cannot stand a naked man, it freaks me out....am not a lesbian,,,,,,,,help i will be getting married soon and its a big problem for me.....i don't want to mess up
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011): its ok dont freak out , i understand where your coming from , my friend has the same problem too , as long as your fiancee is understanding and willing to go slow on you , you should develop the confidence to be able to have normal sexual relations with him .. nudeness is natural and yes its something you just have to approach in a mature manner and get used to i suppose ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011): I wouldn't worry about it. My own wife doesn't really like looking at me when i'm naked in the bathroom!! I don't look that bad but she feels a little awkward during those moments. It doesn't worry me at all, I find it funny actually. However she can admire a beautiful naked woman (no she is not a lesbian) And lets face it, a naked man no matter how good looking, standing there with his willy hanging out in front of him, looks ridiculous, whereas a naked women is graceful beauty....
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reader, MistressNataliee  +, writes (23 February 2011):
Have you considered asexuality? When you are not attracted to either sex. To be fair, the male genetalia is not the most attractive thing in the world lol but if you cant stand to look at it you need to work out what you want. Try looking at a naked man bit by bit, getting used to it before jumping in deep end.
If it doesnt help, talk to someone about it, preferably before you get married and see if you can resolve it that way.
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reader, OhGetReal  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 Don't get married. Get some therapy. We have no idea why you can't stand the sight of a naked man
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