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writes:is there such thing as bad kissers? i have never kissed anyone and im really scared and nervous. i have been seeing this and he always trie to kiss me but i refuse. im scared im a bad kisser, i dont want to tell him i've never kissed anyone. any tips or suggestions?
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reader, TeaLady +, writes (23 February 2011):
 Yes there are horrible kissers. You are not one of them. See the other person not as a judge of your kissing, but a lucky recipient of your kissing and practice the heck on them.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (23 February 2011):
 Yes! People who who shove your tongue down your throat to the point where you're choking, too much spit making it a slobbery dog kiss, or using their teeth to the point where you two knock teeth, or they accidentally bite you. I've experienced all the above.
You start off by tilting your head, small and sweet, then have your mouth slightly open, he then meets his tongue with yours and you rather massage his tongue with yours.
The key is to relax and not put that much thought into, it's when you're nervous and you overanalyze the situation is when you'll mess up. No worries, you get more experienced as you go along.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (23 February 2011):
 Yes, there is such a thing as a bad kisser, but not knowing technique isn't usually the top indicator. If he's good and you follow his lead, you'll do excellent.
Also, you might want to think about telling him. It's definitely not a bad thing, and he'll be really touched that you trusted him with that.
Remember, no bad breath or wild tongue swirling!
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 I wouldn't use the term bad but I would definitly say that some people are not as good as others but it's not for the reasons you are probably thinking. Some people are bad because they either don't care about the person or they are too arrogant to pick up on what the other person likes or doesn't.
Trust me you won't be a bad kisser for two reasons; 1 you are pretty much guaranteed to have it come naturally and you will surprised with what you know. 2 is that this boy cares about you and those feeling make the kiss more than any physical aspect of it so I am sure he will find it to be amazing.
My best advice to you is let it come naturally and if it catches you off guard then all the better.
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reader, Melissa helps  +, writes (23 February 2011):
Ther will always be a first kiss for everyone. Everyone goes through the same thing. The will be a first kiss, first love, first oral sex and first penetrative sex. There will always be a first time for everything everyone is a bad kisser for the first time but you get used to it and you will love it
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