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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This boy I know asked me out for a drink to say thank you for something I had done for him. I asked my LT bf what he wished for me to do and he said he didn't mind if I went. He's now asked me to go out again one-on-one. He's knows I have a bf. This may sound v weird to you. But this issue is this: a yr ago my bf broke my trust by meeting up this ex of his behind my back. He has promised not to see girls one-on-one until my trust is fully back. So I feel mega hypocritical for seeing a boy one-on-one. What do I do this time? I'd like to meet up with him cos he's good company, but I'd rather keep my bf happy. Reply to this Question
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reader, OhGetReal  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 I think your boyfriend doesn't care if you go out with this guy. I think the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior I.e. Your boyfriend is not as committed to you as you'd like to believe. It's kind of dumb to take yourself completely off the market for men when you don't have a ring on your left hand. I say keep your heart open your heart belongs to you until a man steps up and claims you as the one. Who knows maybe this guy is your stand up guy, your boyfriend needs to be reminded you're a free agent and he could lose you to another man. You are the prize he has to win not the other way around.
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