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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My husband's friend's wife is a pain the wrong place. She is a bitchy person and can never have a good word to say about anyone. She is super fake and is all nice and pally with everyone though. She bitches to me about everyone else, what is the guarantee she does not do the same about me? I wouldn't give her a care if it wasn't for our husbands' 10 year long friendship. She crossed the line a couple of months ago when her husband and she humiliated my husband and me. They have done insulting things before too but I never paid attetion to them, but nw it just seems like they are making a habit out of it. Its v obvious she does it out of jealousy, she does not even try to mask it sometimes (also I am quick to sense because I am HSP) I don't want to hang out with them, but I don't want to ruin my husbands relship with his friend. Also, we are a big grp and its not fair we miss out on having good times with others because these 2 are always there. What should I do?
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reader, TeaLady +, writes (23 February 2011):
 Be honest with your husband about the way you feel. You can choose to put up with her for his sake or not, but it's your choice. If you choose to stay clear of her then expect your husband to not do you any favors when it comes to putting up with your friends or relatives that he does not like.
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