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writes: I was dating a girl and lets say her name is....Brittney. anyways we never talked. well after having a falling out we decided to end things but me and her best friend keep staring at each other in class and we do talk ,but I dont want to mess up her and my ex's friendship
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reader, ReconEliteOPS +, writes (24 February 2011):
ReconEliteOPS is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOH and we didn't throw things or scream. She got her friends to do it (not her best friend). BTW: I'm in middle school but I really need help and my friends aren't much....guess I got desperate.
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reader, ReconEliteOPS +, writes (24 February 2011):
ReconEliteOPS is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot
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reader, TeaLady +, writes (23 February 2011):
 Be honest about your feelings...you can't live to please everyone.
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reader, Lele0515 +, writes (23 February 2011):
well, in my opinion, i think you should wait some time before doing anything serious, if you haven't already done that. If so see if she is worth it. If so, then talk to your ex's BFF and tell her to ask your ex if it's okay that you and her date. If so then YAY (: lol
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reader, sophisticated08 +, writes (22 February 2011):
 so you and this girl brittany were dating but you never talked to her... or her bestfriend is the one that you never talked to... so you want to talk to the bestfriend but you dont want your ex to get mad? i guess you should just not talk to the girl just talk to someone else.. i dont think it isnt worth it to just mess up the ex and bestfriend relationship find someone else to talk to im sure there are plenty of other girls for you to talk to...
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reader, YouWish +, writes (22 February 2011):
 The only way that dating your ex's best friend won't put a huge strain on your ex's relationship with her BF is is she asks her friend if it's okay with her if she goes out with you. If there is still messiness and unsaid things from your relationship, that may be more daunting.
If the two of you broke up by screaming, throwing things, or blasting each other in public, or you cheated on her, then it's likely that she'll view her best friend dating you as a betrayal and warn her off of you.
If, however, you didn't get really serious, and after the "falling out" period, the two of you talked it out and amicably decided that you two weren't a good fit and parted as cordial friends, your chances are much better.
Good luck.
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