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writes:im 19 and have slept with 16 different girls/women but no matter what i can't seem to be content with just one. ever since my ex of 1.5 years and i broke up, i can never feel that "love" again with somebody.after about 1 month with a girl, i lose interest and start looking again. we met when i was 16 and broke up almost 2 years ago but for some reason i can't move on and love somebody else. i feel like im still not over her in a subconsious way. what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011): sleeping around isnt going to help in any way if you do try fixing things with her she might not like the fact that you where sleeping around and that might ruin things for you or if you do find someone els the # of sex partners might be a big turn off, all depending on the person, best advice is stay single have some fun. everything works out on its own.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): That is because you have not learned what intimacy is and are using sex to try to get it.That doesn't work.To many women, to small a period of time, and going from one to the other, same problem but with different person.Get some books on intimacy and read them, don't get into relationships for a while.If you have been sexually abused, use drugs or alcohol, are an adult child of a drug or alcohol addicted parent, or have neglect or abandonment issues, then you probably need professional counseling.By the way, 16 partners by your age is way the hell up there, and it doesn't prove your masculinity. You have a problem, and getting your dick in a vagina won't solve it. Look for help.Good luck.
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reader, Nadzthebabe  +, writes (22 February 2011):
Firstly why did you break up in the first place? WhO dumPed who?
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reader, Tatumokeef +, writes (22 February 2011):
 Thats a tough situation. I've definitely been in your shoes before with my ex-girlfriend of 2.5 years. We had a break mid relationship and I drove myself crazy. Eventually I lost feelings for her towards the end of the relationship. Looking back, I see that being around other people and getting your mind of things, helps you focus on what is important. Really look at the qualities of your ex and ask yourself, does she really make me happy? If she does, then it might be worth rekindling things with her. Also, sleeping with other girls may be easy, but in the long run, will only hurt you when you realize they werent worth it. Try finding that girl that won't sleep with you, try harder and develop a relationship. It might just keep your mind of things and possibly develop the love your looking for.
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