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writes: Hi, I really want this cute guy to notice me but hes the hottest guy around and always has his friends around him. I think he likes me but we are both kinda shy. It feels diffrent than any other crush I'v had, every time I see or even just think about him I feel like I'm in heaven! What could I do to make him notice me more? I really like him and want to go out with him. Any tips?
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reader, The Girl with the Diver's Hair +, writes (22 February 2011):
Eveything KatieBudget says i am agreeing with :D
Good Luck. E xx
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reader, Chlo97 +, writes (22 February 2011):
Thats nice! But really u just hav to be yourself.if u realy want him to like u then it shud be for yourself!hope i helped!:-D
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): katie is like 100 percent correct lols
copy paste the advice lolina
xx lol
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reader, katiebudge +, writes (22 February 2011):
How sweet may I firstly say! But the main thing is you have to be yourself, however if its in your personality to be shy there is nothing wrong with that, clearly its a quality you share. what you need to do is be a more confident version of yourself, when you see him make an effort to say "hello" when you see him even if hes with your friends. if you do it every morning you see him it will get easier to speak to him. whenever hes on his own or maybe with 1 or 2 with his friends go over and talk to him, talk to all of them, *if he becomes your boyfriend you need to know his friends* maybe do something different to make him notice, put your hair in a different style, wear different make up *not too much he needs to see the real you.* and just take it one step at a time. if saying hello seems to big right now just give him a wave or a smile. when you speak to him compliment him, that will make him feel more secure and less nervous to speak to you. together you can help eachother break your shyness and get to know each other. unfortuantly shyness is in a lot of peoples personalities but never let it stop you getting what you want. just be yourself but a more confident person. literally step out of your shyness when you walk over to him. listen to him, smile at him, laugh with him, eye contact, have discussions about different things. the more you talk to each other the more confident youll become :)
hope this helps
KatieBudget :D
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