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anonymous
writes:I've started seeing a boy, but we're not going out... yet.He's quite shy and I always prefer to let the man make the first move, which means that our relationship isn't really progressing.I do want to be with him but I'm not too sure what to do to ensure that this actually goes somewhere.Any ideas?Thank you in advance!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): I would just like u to know my husband was or well is kinda shy. The first time we kissed i had to step up and since he was shy it was good moment and i asked him if i could kiss him and so yea i have kids and we have been married 5yrs. we look back and laugh its funny now but i wouldnt change his shyness. You could either step up or just wait and see how he feels it just make things a little quicker to go ahead.
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (22 February 2011):
 Hello,
Just a thought, but if you prefer men that make the move and things are not progressing much, then you could ask yourself the question of "is he the type of man I am attracted to?"
Of course, you may hint a little and then things take off as you like, but do work out why you want the guy. Hannah.
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (22 February 2011):
If you really like this guy then give him the time and opportunities to grow some confidence. Just because he is shy now, and doesn't make the first move, doesn't mean he will always be this way. He might be the perfect guy for you behind his initial shyness. In fact he might be a great guy, coz his shyness means he is unlikely to have played the field and treated women badly.
So yeah I would say go for it.
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reader, Captain Ziggy  +, writes (22 February 2011):
 If hes too shy, then you make the first move...
If you want to be with him, yet you wont make it happen because you "prefer to let the man make the first move", than you're just being foolish lol.
He might make the move eventually, but if you can't wait, then get it started yourself! :)
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