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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: am in love with this guy,but the problem is that it is a distant relationship.....finding it very difficult to cope, we trust ourselves...we don't see each other....is there anything that could eliminate these?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2011): you gotta see each other... that is really, really important. but don't make it a drama or difficult to see each other. try to make the logistics as easy as possible, and focus on the good times together.
use skype. send emails. send letters. call sometimes but not too often. text sometimes but not too often. plan trips together, so that the two of you have something to look forward to.
also: communicate! tell each other your feelings, or at least what you are thinking (no need to be too emotional).
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