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writes:So i have a bit of a problem. my ex and i have been trying to get back together for about 2 months now. The thing is she is about to move away for college and we will not see each other anymore since shes moving all the way to the other side of the country. We both want to be together but we are both doing things we need to do and it is driving us apart. I know deep down that it will not work out and it will probably end here pretty soon. Our relationship is not strong enough to withstand a LDR.Also apart from that... well she had cheated on me a while back with a guy she got pretty deep with and now that shes about to leave she told me that she went to mexico to see her family but i think shes really just visiting the guy that she was with. Shes not currently in school so she has maybe a month before she goes away. I cant call her because she has no reception in mexico but i called her yesterday anyways and it rang for a while and hung up on its own. Usually if someone doesnt answer it will ring then go to voicemail but it just hung up. I thught it was weird so i called again and this time it went straight to her voicemail which means she probably turned it off. So im extremely suspecious that shes really just with this guy and not with her family.She said that she might spend a few days over there but if she likes it then she might stay a couple of weeks. But anyways theres no way i can speak to her because if shes in mexico then she really cant answer and if shes with this guy then she wont answer. I feel like i need to put a stop to this but theres no set time that she will come back and she might not even come back till its time for her to leave to college. Like i said i know im probably wasting my time with this girl but i just love her so much and its hard for me to let go. Right now all i want is the truth and if shes really with this guy then i will just delete her from my life as soon as i find out. But like i said theres no way of speaking to her so we can end it so to speak and well i feel like its unfinished bussiness that is killing me inside. I feel like theres no closure and i dont know what to do. I want to move on but like i said im not at peace. It kills me to think that she might be in someone elses arms as im typing this and theres nothing i can do about it. I just want a way to feel better. I know this is a lost cause but i still feel like crap. I want to atleast talk to her once more to settle everything and say goodbye sort of speak since when she left she didnt say goodbye. Well she did but she said it as in ill see you soon not as in goodbye goodluck with life. Any suggestions?
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (27 February 2011):
 Can you ask one of her friends if she is really in Mexico. Maybe you could post something to her on Facebook.
I doubt she would go off with some guy for a couple of weeks without anyone knowing where she is or who she is with. Girls just don't do stuff like that, even with guys they like but just met. It's just to dangerous. So she probably is with her family.
I can't help you find out where she really is, but her story should be easy enough to prove once she gets back. Just ask her to show you some pictures from her trip.
Either way she is leaving soon. So try not to take it to hard.
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