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3 times we've had oral sex but he's only cum once. Is that normal?

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Question - (22 February 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

me and this guy have been dating 3 times we both are virgins.but we did oral sex....what matters me is that when we do this he masturbates only once. is it normal that he did ejaculate once out of 3 times having oral sex and holding each other naked, or it is cuz he doesn't like me?...btw he he is caring but don't know if he has good feeling to this r/ship.tnx for ur help

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (23 February 2011):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntIt is quite common for men to not be able to finish by oral sex alone. Nothing to worry about. Make good use of your hands (and breasts if you can) and things should work out better.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011):

hi i would like to say like someothers said some may not like it that much i am married and my husband loves it but cant finish that way but sometime i will do it for awhile then use my hand till he gets close and and then do both hand and mouth.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011):

I have to agree with Jmtmj. I always receive a bunch of BJ from my boyfriend. Once in a while, I had to stop him during oral sex because the friction was too pain to endure. The trick is not to work on the same spot for too long. Change the area from time to time. Change the motion of your tongue. Apply fingers to his shaft and balls. It's also very helpful if he tells you which spots make him feel good.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (22 February 2011):

Jmtmj agony auntIt really doesn't have much to do with whether he likes you or not, its more to do with friction. I've never "finished" from oral... ever. Doesn't mean I've never liked/loved my partner.

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A male reader, Captain Ziggy Canada +, writes (22 February 2011):

Captain Ziggy agony aunt We'll, if you we're doing it long enough to make him get off, then he should have gotten off all 3 times.

Make sure you're not hurting him! No teeth, don't suck to hard, don't twist his balls into weird positions.

Theres a possibility that he might just not like it. I've heard of guys that dont like it, cant say I've ever met one though.

My advice, try something different when you go down on him, use your hand more often. You can ask him whats going on, but if you havn't been together long then hes probably not going to say anything. Try something different.

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