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anonymous
writes: Ok guys and girls if you want to, are very small breasts and very large breasts a turn off if so what cup sizes are the 2 barriers?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help people, and k_c100 thanks very much, you have helped a lot also though I have an identical twin sister how is a bit smaller than me in ever way including her bra size she is a 34D. She gets more bf's than me and I get attention from weirdos obviously I gave read that you said they aren't mature yet but it still affects the confidence that I will have in the future
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (22 February 2011):
Dont worry, I remember being your age and its horrible, boys are so immature up until they are about 18 (some maybe 16) and they only think about boobs and sex. But I promise you it will get lots better when you are a bit older and the boys grow up, the fascination with boobs wears off a bit and they will be interested in getting to know you as a person, not just for your boobs.
I am now 23, and I have always had lovely boyfriends (including my current one). Yes they love my boobs, but they also are interested in me as a person and not just for my chest. I didnt get my first serious boyfriend until I was 16 though, anyone else interested in me before that age was just an idiot who wanted one thing.
So keep your chin up, your boobs are a perfectly normal size and be proud of your curves. Just remember that in a few years time everything will be better, and dont let silly immature little boys get to you.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYh ok thanks guys for the help k_c100 I'm in the exact same situation as you I am a 34 E aswell and all my friends are b or a. I have one friend who is a c then it's me.I just get the wrong attention from guys. Most guys in my school know who I am because if my breasts but don't know me at all
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (22 February 2011):
There are no 2 difinitve barriers - some men love small boobs (A and B cups), some men love big boobs. Just as some girls like tall dark and handsome men, whereas other girls like blonde guys - we are all different and have different tastes in partners.
I have close friends who are only A or B cups but have LOADS of male attention because they are gorgeous and make the most of their figures. Whereas I am a 34E, I still get lots of attention from guys but no more or less than my friends with small boobs. My boyfriend loves my boobs and prefers girls with bigger boobs (his cut off point would be F) and would never date a girl with tiny boobs but that is just his preference. He likes curvy girls (hips and boobs) but I know plenty of guys who like skinny girls with little boobs.
So dont worry about the size of your boobs - while teen boys may be obsessed with them right now, when they mature a bit and get older they will learn what they like in a girl and they will all have different tastes. Boobs are a novelty to teen boys because all of a sudden girls grow them out of nowhere, so the girls that suddenly grow the biggest ones get the most attention because it is new and different. But as soon as the boys get a bit older, the novelty wears off and they become more interested in the whole package, not just the boobs.
All you need to do is learn what clothes suit your body shape, learn what hair styles and make up suit your face - then just make the most of yourself! If you ask most guys, a pretty face and nice body in general is what they are attracted to - not boobs alone. Guys love eyes, if you have pretty eyes and learn how to do your make-up well then this will make a big difference. The first thing a guy will notice about a girl is her eyes, face, then body (overall shape). Boobs, bum and legs will be the last things they notice about you!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): C is probably my preference, B is quite fabulous too. I'd enjoy A's over D's. Firm and natural appeal to me rather than size.
I have no interest whatever in fakes that are done for no medical reason (the Khardasians, Pam Anderson, do zero for me), but I completely respect implants/cosmetic surgery if it's because of a mastectomy.
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