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age
30-35,
*oveitlongtime
writes:I went to boarding school for three years. I have taken yoga out of those three years at school. The last year at this school and yoga I finally noticed this guy who has been there for three years. We never spoke if we did it was only about small things. I graduated this year and so did he, not thinking anything of it I went on with my life, when I got a friend request on facebook, and a poke from him? I was like wow this is really interesting, so I sent him an inbox and being a little flirty I said "heyy". Since then we have been talking, and strictly now its turned sexual/friendly/i don't even know. The other night we finally got into this intense conversation where I was drunk but he wasnt, he proceeded to tell me that ever since he saw me the first day of school that he found me absolutely gorgeous, and that he is so mad at himself for not saying anything to me when we were in the same school, he was telling me how badly he wants me and all this stuff. So after that I passed out because I was at a party that night, I haven't heard from him since he's e, always been on and off with me, but now he told me this and is now completely not talking..its been since friday...i find it kind of odd that he is sexual friendly ultimately caring then out of nowhere disappears AGAIN...somethings not right? Men women what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): There is something about facebook that makes it it too easy to contact people from your past and indulge past fantasies that have no bearing in your present life. You can build up fantasies about people, get your chance to meet them via facebook and then be dissappointed with reality.
He obviously wanted to get the fact that he found you attractive off his chest. Perhaps he merely wanted a chance to meet you because he felt he never indulged that chance or had the proper opportunity when you did yoga together.
What should you think about him disappearing? Nothing much. He was curious. You seem to have ambivalent feelings about him, so it's quite likely he feels ambivalent after meeting you as well. After all, you don't know him. Don't expect to much from a virtual stranger, even if he is a facebook friend.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (22 February 2011):
 he's a coward? he didnt tell u he liked u in 3 yrs!!!
because? he fears rejection.
that time where u couldnt answer back because u passed out...(friendly advice : do not go online when ur drunk)...he thought you purposely ignored him. he got scared he might of said something to turn u off.
wait for a week,and if he doesnt talk...just say "hey stranger"...:)
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