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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I feel like I am not someone who a attractive and successful man would be interested. I graduated college but I still work in the mall because it's hard to find jobs right now. I don't have a ton of friends, but I am nice, funny, attractive, genuine, shy, very laid back, soft spoken,somewhat reserved, and in shape. I don't really have a lot of hobbies, but I like to work out and hang out with my friends once in a while. I am indecisive, though open-minded, and picky about love interests, so there really isn't any. It's hard to find guys cause I don't hang out in bars and I've only had one boyfriend which only lasted a couple weeks. I've only had sex a few times in my life, so I'm not exactly "experienced" and it takes some time for me to open up to people. Am I really that undateable? I'm 22 years old and feel like I'm going to live a lonely life if something doesn't change. If there is a main reason I am undateable, what is it? It's not like I go show-boating my somewhat low self esteem about dating, but I never seem to get noticed by any guys who I'd really be interested in. It's frustrating!
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reader, powerman +, writes (22 February 2011):
 Maybe your to picky, try looking at a working class guy and not one in a busness suit. They are more like to make you happy anyway and love to have a woman who take care of themself.
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