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writes:Hey guys, me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now. I am 15 almost 16 and he is already 16, he suggested us having sex, I was quite weary as to do it or not, this is because i weigh quite a lot and have very large breasts that could put him off. I do sort of want to have sec with him on my birthday, but i need to get some more self confidence
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011): 16 is soo young, and its such a big step to help you decide just think about it a few years from now are you gonna wish you waited longer? i know i do and i was 18, and after my first time i got pregnant, yes we used protection but it still happend, and it happends am not the first or last. just make sure your ready for what might happend after and keep in mind once you lose it your NEVER getting it back, and you'll never forget the person who took it..
take a lisen
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BJrSx2hnpys
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reader, smells +, writes (23 February 2011):
clearly if he wants to have sex with you he's attracted to you and dont be put off by sex because you feel your weight is a problem.
equally however dont have sex because you feel pressured to. once you lose your virginity you can never get it back, think about wether your ready to have sex and whether he is the guy you want to lose your virginity to, its only as big a deal as you make it and from what i've read i dont feel your fully ready to have sex.
dont just tell him you want to have sex on your birthday because you may not be ready even then, see how things go and dont feel self conscious about yourself everyone is beautiful and clearly he thinks your hot if he wants to have sex with you ;)
good luck with what you decide to do.
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reader, TeaLady  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 Wait until your 18th birthday please! Also, before considering even having sex, please get on birth control, talk to your parents or trusted adult and visit a family clinic. You must insist he wear condoms everytime or you will end up pregnant and/or with sexually transmitted diseases eventually. You will get nothing out of having sex as a teenager but a lot of pain and grief and heartache...not to mention the unwanted pregnancy or stds. Tell him you are not his masterbation toy and that you value your body your choices and your future.
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reader, Cutie98xxx +, writes (22 February 2011):
Its alright if you dont want to have sex.! If you were really in love he would accept that you want to wait. And dont let your weight keep you from being a person, your going out right! He loves you just the way you are!!! Hope this helps!!! :)
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reader, dirtball +, writes (22 February 2011):
 You're welcome, glad to help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you and very good point
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reader, dirtball +, writes (22 February 2011):
Don't worry about that stuff. He doesn't care. You're attractive to him.
As long as you don't feel pressured into sex, you should do what you want. If you want some birthday sex, then go for it. It will be legal for you at that time.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (22 February 2011):
In the first place you have to wait to be the legal age (according to your country) to have sex.
For the confidence issue I would recommend you to start doing some sport or working out. So you get your body more like you think it should be. I mean, don't take ridiculous standards for your body. Try to get where you think is reasonably possible and healthy.
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