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*ukelostlove
writes:I had an affair with a girl 1 years older than me who happens to already hv a relationship 3 years long. Weve been seeing each othr romanticly for more than 14 months now. She broke up with me a month ago for reasons i still dont know for sure. But i kept my cool and kept my distance with no contact. In less than a week she txted and called me back for attention and we got back the week after. We were very happy to have got back together.Everything was back to normal and we were lovers once more...BUT, two weeks later out of the blue she breaks up AGAIN with me over the phone. I never expected it at all. She says she cant commit to any relationship even to her current boyfriend and doesnt want to hurt anybody but she is still living with him. She told me that she doesnt know how to handle relationships and often have stress about that. But i havent been pressuring her about anything.I am really confused. But i really do love her. What should i do? I dont even know if i should keep my distance like i did before....I really cannot believe she could let me go after what weve been through. One minute shes dying for my attention and the next she can break it up like i meant nothing. Whats going on?-lucas
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): Karma, you didn't respect the relationship she had and went through with it and had an affair. Now you know how it feels to be burned
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