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Should I go out with my best guy friend? Will it ruin our friendship?

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Question - (22 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2011)
A female Canada age 26-29, anonymous writes:

There are rumors going around my high school about me going out with my best guy friend. They think we are going out because we are mostly always together, but we don't flirt with each other or anything. Everyone says that we would make such a cute couple but I don't have any feelings for him WHAT SO EVER! He has recently asked me out this isn't the first time and he says he is really persistent person. I don't want to ruin our relationship, what should I do?

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A female reader, dannigirl1628 United States +, writes (23 February 2011):

dannigirl1628 agony auntYou never do know, but if you are really as great friends as you think it shouldn't make a difference. NO GUARANTEES but it may may your relationship stronger. Plus if there is no mutual spark then I PROMISE you will go back to being best buds 3

If this helps glad I could help ;)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011):

Ahh the age old question. I'm 22 and I still get mistaken for dating my close guy friends.

You should find out if he is asking you out because he has feelings for you, or is he only doing it because everyone thinks you guys would make a cute couple?

Either way I'd say you probably shouldn't go out with him, considering you don't have feelings and you don't want to ruin the relationship. Tell him the truth. From my experience, if he really is your best friend you guys will be able to move past this. I assume both of you are still quite young - there's no reason to rush into anything.

Good luck!

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