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writes:Me and my best guy friend decided to have sex. He's been kind of hinting at it for a while, and for a while I thought he was starting to like me. I've liked someone else for 3 years and still like him, so I wasn't interested. but 2 nights ago we were hanging out watching a movie and we were cuddling and flirting big time. Which was really strange but felt so natural. so after that night we agreed to have sex together. I like him kind of, But I like the other guy more. If he likes me I don't want to end up hurting him afterward. I'm not really sure what to do, I feel so comfortable with him and we both want to lose out virginity before college.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): Don't have sex with him. What is the point? Wait till you are with someone you have real and strong feelings for. When you have done it once with him you may find the nature of your friendship changes. It is the ultimate in intimacy and do you want to share that with someone who is just a friend? No, wait. You only lose your virginity once and that's it.
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reader, C. Grant +, writes (22 February 2011):
 Why would you want to have sex with someone you only "kind of" like? Even moreso, if I'm reading this right, lose your virginity to him? Like there's some problem taking your virginity to college?
Please give your head a shake here. Just because the cuddling and flirting was nice doesn't mean that sex is the appropriate next step. How about finding a guy who rocks your world, who treats you like a princess, who your heart tells you could be the guy you want to make a life with? Don't you think that would be a better guy to give your virginity to? There really is no hurry you know.
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