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writes:ive bin with my boyfriend for about a month officially but have been seeing him for about 4 and a half months. we dont have a future as were of different religions and are both aware of this and are just happy as we are at the moment. hes always trying to make me jealous telling me about hoe he likes this girl or how she likes him or how this girl is hot and in all honesty it doesnt bother it bothers me that he keeps telling me... i snapped at him the other day saying well if shes hot get with her, why are you with me and hes like why do you want me to? s he trying to get me to break up with himwe've had sex and its no big deal, but were soo intimate and itbothers me that he can act like that. he left himself logged on to facebook on my pc and i had a nose when he went, there was nothing overly incrimnating but he had posted a heart on one of the girls walls and i saw messages from 6 or 7 months were they were expressing their love for each other.we were officailly together but it was only days before and he had already asked me to be gf and i had said no not yet but i dont hink this is right. im not jealous im just hurt and i dont no what to do. i really love him and he treats me so well, when i was in a car accdent he stood up to the guy when he was getting abusive and he didnt have to but i loved him more and now i need help advise me on what to do please.
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reader, lovevivi  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 "we dont have a future as were of different religions and are both aware of this" and "im not jealous im just hurt" explains exactly what you should do. Not only are you unhappy with what things are right now, you BOTH know that this relationship isn't going to work. If he made you happy 24/7, then it would be worth salvaging despite the fact that it wasn't going to work out in the end. However, he hurts you and tries to make you jealous (whether or not it works isn't the point). That is toxic. I'd get out now, knowing all that.
Best wishes to whatever you decide to do.
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