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anonymous
writes:So the other day I went to see my boyfriend and he had some weird bumps on his lips and I pointed it out and ask him if it was a cold sore because it could be herpes and you should go check it out. So at first he was playful with it and after I left he started texting me saying I hurt his feelings and that who am I to point out his flaws and that he doesn't want to be with me anymore. So what do I do now ? Should I say sorry or just move on I'm really confused.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (22 February 2011):
 You DO owe him an apology. A cold sore may be just that: a cold sore and nothing to do with any STDs. It would have been better if you had stopped talking at "go see the doctor" and not mentioned herpes......
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): Come on! He is ridiculous! What kind of a relationship is it if you can't even point out a sore lip?!? Seriosuly, movie on! In a relationship there are often big discussions, big fights and there's a lot of pointing out to do about things that are way more important than this. He's just an immature baby! Move on, sweetie!
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reader, sha9991  +, writes (22 February 2011):
Hi,
It sounds like to me,that he's very immuture or you have court him out for cheating,and he is making out it's your fault he is dumping you!(classic reverse psychology) Before you dumped him for being a cheat anyway,I bet you don't have any cold sores? So where did he get them from,most probably from another girl! where he has cold sores on his lips,sounds like herpes or worse? I would get yourself checked-out at a STD clinic fast!!!
Don't say sorry to him he doesn't deserve it! You are the one who deserves a apology,cuz he might have given you a STD? You are best out of it,he has done you a favour,move on and find a nice guy,who can treat you with respect!
I hoped I have helped? All the best! :)
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 February 2011):
 Move on. If you can't ask your BF what's up on his lip who can you ask?
Though, I wouldn't try and "diagnose" future BF's with STD's....
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