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writes:i want to date this lady who jst came out of a 4 month relationship which did not work out,we've been talking on fon for two weeks now n the respond has been great.i told her how i feel abt her bt she said she likes to hear from me bt she think still loves her ex,bt she wants me to give her sometime, we are both college students,her ex is working..i want u to advice me dear cupid.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 Good for you, Pierre! Good luck to you.
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reader, pierre +, writes (23 February 2011):
pierre is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx for the reply n advice,i wld go strickly by that n see if it would yield a fruitful result.
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reader, sha9991  +, writes (22 February 2011):
Hi,
I would give her time! She's enjoying your support you are giving her as a friend from a break-up,her heart needs time to heal at the moment,but I wouldn't expected anything but friendship from her at the moment,the best relationships can start off as friends,so time will tell!
I hope I have helped? All the best! :)
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (22 February 2011):
Well now. She apparently likes you and enjoys chatting with you on the phone. That's good.
HOWEVER, she has JUST broken up with someone else. Therefore, your best bet at present is to offer her your friendship - no more than friendship, mind - and be patient for another month or two (if it takes that long - and of course we don't know HOW long ago she ended her previous relationship).
"Be there" for her, be kind, pleasant and friendly when you speak. NO pressure! Perhaps then - and because she has specifically asked you to give her some time - she will eventually be ready to move into a closer relationship with you.
If that happens, all well and good and you'll be happy. But if it doesn't, you'll just have to (reluctantly) let her go. Like I said, be patient, nice, don't pressure her and see what happens. If you like her that much, after all, isn't it worth it to wait a while?
Good luck!
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