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writes:Ok, so very confused. BUT ITS INTRESTING!! NEED FEEDBACK! Been best friends with this guy for 3 years. Always hanging out and everything. Soon as we met, sparks flew, we kinda both knew we were digging each other But i got into a relationship, during this time, he was still asking if i would be with him, Turned him down time and time again. When i got out of my relationship, he introduced me to his friends because i hardly knew anyone being from another country. He asked me to be his girl a couple weeks after my boi and i broke up, but i declined. He starts dating one of the friends he introduce me to, so the three of us get really close, especially with his girl so everything was cool... Months pass by and i notice that his girl is really abusive, physically and emitionally, calling him bitch and that he wasnt worth anything. I started developing feelings for him.. We started fooling around. the whole time he was professing his love to me. When i found out that he had already cheated on her, it made things alot worse, because he had mad me feel kinda bad for being the reason he cheated One night in April, the shit hit the fan and next thing you know im yelling at my besfriend because he said i started the whole fooling around idea.. i mean i todl her everything. I feel so bad. So anyway they both stop talknig to me and continue to break. Of course im getting the emails from the girlfriend saying im a whore and all that. 2 months later they breake up.. four days after that, the same guy who said he didnt want anything to do with me and that i was the last person he would ever talk to texts me!!! So im just so happy that he texts me after so long even though we both have stopped talking to eachother for a period of time because we are mad, but this time was differant, i really thought it would be years before we would talk. but he texts.. and like i said i was too excited that i asked to come over and we fooled aruond that night. after we did it we started talking, he aske me what i wanted and i told him tht i wanted to be with him.. but he said that wasnt what he wanted. He then made a comment about me saying the same thing to him before. I SLEEP OVER, and the next morinnig he tells me to check my memo pad, so i do. he writes a leter saying that he understood and agreed with what i was saying but because of the circumstances felt like it would lead to drama, stress and dissapointment. when we talked about it, his heart was beating really fast. I texted him not to long ago. i was under the assumption that everything was cool because we had been texting back and forth.. he told me he had an interview that last time i saw him. SO I ASKED HOW IT WENT AND HE NEVER TEXT BACK??? THIS WAS 1 WEEK AGO!!! should i give him time to get over the breeak up??? is he playing games?? He told me if we got together, he would cheat on me and that he wanted to graduate single... is he saying that because he wants to be an ass or bc he really cares??? i a msoo
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): men are so confusing, but it's karma, bc u shud never mess with a man who is already committed it will come out sooner or later, and he will always look at you are the side chick. but he is most likely playing games, unless you and him had a really long serious relationship before, only you can be the judge of that. but like i said it's karma and karma sucks...
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