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I'm not ugly and have already had offers but just don't want to move on.

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Question - (1 September 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 September 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, *ndianprince writes:

please help

i was in a relationship four over four years. At first everything was great but after a few months she changed, kept clearing her phone insisting on checking my phone and began to hit me.

Anyway we broke up and got back together quickly to which the arguments ensued, i lost all my confidence and was not allowed to see my friends, go to gym or go out. The rules were different with her.

Anyway i caught her cheating and still forgave her to which i believe she cheated on me with at least five different men.

lowest point she went out with a man had a car accident nothing serious and hated him. i took her back which after a year passed he was still texting her to which i left her.

last week she called me to say with him in the background laughing that she loved him and hated me. I have changed my number and stopped going to all the places we went to but i just cannot stop thinking about her. i cry at night and wake up in hot sweats and feel sick all the time.

what can i do to get over her. I'm not ugly and have already had offers but just don't want to move on.

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A male reader, indianprince United Kingdom +, writes (2 September 2010):

indianprince is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for the eplies i think im going to lay low for the rest of the year just to heal

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010):

She walked all over you. You need to find a nice, honest girl and just become friends. Be honest with this new girl and she will probably understand totally. You need to see that there are women out there that are loving, caring and honest.

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