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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I'm laughing so very hard right now as I write this and its from one part amusement and one part confusion. You see, my bf usually calls me right after work at 7. Yesterday, he didn't so I sent him a text. I assumed he was working late, no big. So then my friend Alex calls and we're off talking about random things for a few hrs, so Alex invites me to hang out at this crepe shop cuz we talked about nutella :p and right then, my bf calls. I tell Alex I'll call him back and that darn green button on my cell makes it so I keep getting Alex instead of "Emilio" my bf so when I finally get Emilio, I think its Alex and I go, "call ya right back homie." Emilio goes, "what? Who were ya talking to?" I tell him and he says, "Your extra bf?" I laugh and say no. And then Emilio says, "you'd better not have one or else, I'd kill you." I crack up because he says it lightly, but he laughs about 5 seconds later. When we hang up, he says nothing sweet even though we were joking and being sensual. Is he jealous? P.S Emilio is older.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (1 September 2010):
He might be over reacting thinking that you were just making fun of him. Some people don't take jokes very well. He did take it a little too far when he said "I'd kill you". That just doesn't seem to be joking although I don't know how he actually said it. You know his tones far better then anyone here.
I wouldn't say he is jealous but I think that he is fustrated because you had your attention focused on the friend and he wanted to be the center of attention. Let him know it was all a joke/phone trouble and that you love him and he should forget all about it.
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