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Should I ask him to put her in her place?

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Question - (1 September 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *illissalovesu writes:

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3months and knowing each other for 6months. This girl has been texting and calling(asking asking where he at so she can come see him and come to this hotel party.) She's been having this "crush" ever since me and him started talking. She knows we are together and I stoped talking to her cause before we were sorta friends. He tells me she text and calls him and trys to hook him up with her friends and he told her "no I'm good" and she's says "yeah cause I don't want to mess up what you and your girl got." So my question is should I talk to my boy and ask him to stop texting and put her in her place? Cause if you ask me I find it disrespectful if your texting a boy knowing he has a girlfriend. Cause if he don't say anything I'm going to have to say something. He tells me that I'm all that he wants and he doesn't need or want anything from no other. Helpp I don't know what to do:\

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A female reader, Oregongrl1 United States +, writes (1 September 2010):

Hell yea! you tell him it's either you are her they both are being disrespectful to you and right in your face w/ it.

sounds like he needs to grow up and for her she just wants what she cant have and exspecially to get to you and when she gets him she'll just dump him! it's just a game to her.

Good Luck!

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A male reader, Alwayswondering Canada +, writes (1 September 2010):

Hey.

Maybe they are just friends? Perhaps ask what the content is? It' not really right that you deny him and her of friendship. However it's not acceptable that he is texting someone who wants him in a relationship. If this is the case, then I would talk to him. I hope I helped. Rate my answer please.

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