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writes:Ok well I'm totally confused my best friend and i have known each other since we were about 7 and were both about to turn 16 i used to really like him but when i told me he didn't think of me that way he thought about me like a sister and slowly i have accepted that but last night after i went to his football game we were hanging out at his hows and he told me that he loved what i did with my hair i had looked like i got skinnier and he thought my breasts looked bigger and if he thinks of me like a sister than why was he checking me out and why did he personally ask me out pleas help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo iguess we weren't always close we just got really close in that last 2 or 3 years and yea I guess He could just be saying what everyone is noticing but I can understand what you all are saying for me though I could never just kiss him plus I've never had my first kiss
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (1 September 2010):
 He may say that he sees you as a sister but in reality he can still be attracted to you. He may have said that to tell you how much you mean to him without coming on to you. A while back this girl who I was good friends with always said I was like a brother but we still ended up making out and going down that path. Its just a metophor not to be taken literally.
Now making a move may be difficult. You could always just kiss him one time and see what happens or let him know that you like him so that you don't wait around forever while he is liking you too but is too nervous to say anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): ... What? He isn't checking you out. He's noticing what everyone is probably noticing.
I am a girl who loves my little sister in a pure and platonic sisterly way, but I still notice that recently she's slimmed down and her breasts have grown and she's becoming curvier. People just notice. Just because he noticed you look nice doesn't mean he wants you. I could imagine a guy saying the same thing to someone who actually was his sister if they were close.
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