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writes:I feel very alone .... right now like as if no one cares about me. And idk why. I think most of it has to do with I have been alone all summer. I am every summer. I don't get those wooottt hanging out with my friends all summer. And it's killing me .Even worse I just don't feel any love from my boyfriend I havn't seen him in 2 weeks and it;s just getting tiring cause we don't really txt since he actually has a life ... and can hangout with people. I live in the middle of no where and have tried many hobbies but I can't stick to any log enough. I have tried - jogging everyday - basket ball - writing - I wrote a book ... to bad a write fast and finished a short novel in a day. - I read and have read every book in our local library (it's small) - I tried playing guitar - I tried drawing - I tried photography - but i just get bored of everything. I know this is suppose to be relationship advise but i am just really screwed right now and need to find away to make myself happy again. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): No dreams? That is a little melodramatic, don't ya think? Well, if you don't have any dreams, and ur trying to live ur life thru your bf - well, that is a recipe for unhappiness. You need to find yourself, your own dreams, and then go make them happen
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reader, Over..worried. +, writes (1 September 2010):
Over..worried. is verified as being by the original poster of the question I don't have dreams.
And no i am not heartbroken.
My boyfriend is amazing ... he's just always busy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): You are at such a difficult age. I remember having many of the same thoughts as you when I was 16-17. It was just such a dark time for me.
Then, miraculously, the clouds all lifted when I turned 18 and went away to school. People really appreciated me for all the ways I was unique (or, for the kids in my high school, all the ways I was different or weird). I started having a lot of fun, made many life-long friendships, and most of all, came to really value and love me!
Now looking back, those few dark years in high school were really an aberration. I AM a happy interesting person - even if all those kids never say it, lots of folks have since.
My advice would be to keep working on yourself, think about what are your dreams, and work to prepare yourself for when you can go out and achieve them. Maybe it's going away to college, joining an international agency, moving to a big city...once you are able to change your scenery, I know you will blossom like I did!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): Sounds like you are heartbroken too. I'm sorry for you. I've been there most of my life. Whatever you do, don't get desperate and give yourself up intimately. Hang in there. You are young and soon you will have more independence. Don't go find happiness in the arms of other men. You will be grateful later in life. Good Luck kid. Wish I could do more, but I live in California. If you want to reply I will check back.
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reader, Oregongrl1  +, writes (1 September 2010):
First you need to know living out in the middle of the boonies can be very lonely exspecially for kids your age! and aint much to do? i remember i lived in the desert out in the middle of know where and boy going to town was a treat for me and i also had 6 other sister's! do you have any sibblings? there is nothing wrong w/ you! i use to chase lizards and ride my horse and play w/ my dogs but it still isn't the same as having friends come over and hang out w/ you or spend the nite thats for sure. do you have any family in town that you can go see for the weekend! or you good at writ'ing i love to write!! you will be an adult soon and your life will start and you will be so busy! are you planning on college? your ok just know you are in the boonies but it aint 4-ever ok. you can write me any time you like i'll be here!!
Best Wishes!
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