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writes:Hi I don't even know how to start.my husband gets mad at his friends and i am the one that feels the outcome.why and even if he knows he did wrong he just things are ok.we don't even make love any more and if we do I feel like he is only doing it so I won't think anything is wrong.he leaves at 9am and says I be back by 1pm and he won't be till 6pm or later.i call his cell and he won't pick up but when I call the bar he knows he is there.is he cheating should I leave him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): Is he cheating or a drunk? or both? Getting mad at freinds and then thinking everything is fine is not normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): Dear lady
why all the problems end with "should i leave her or him"?.
I would say it will be highly unfair to just mistrust him that he is cheating and start showing reactions and egoes accordingly.
There may be 100 more reasons of these minor issues. That he is in bar or he did did not come back till evening and all that. Yours is long marriage and it is quite normal to have those symptoms.
Give more time to positives as compared to all negatives, i know it is hard, but it is good also. Remember, 99.99 % worries and risks that every human spent their mind in thinking and speculating actually never happen to them. So be happy. nothing may be there at all. My wife spent 3 years in same suspicion and make her and my both life miserable.
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