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*edboyblue
writes:Lately a great girl that a really like has become somewhat distant and extremely stressed out from her huge workload at school. She is taking advanced courses which are completely new for her. Before classes started we had a really fun relaxed relationship going and I was on the way to taking her out on her first date but now she will hardly talk to me and when she does there is no emotion in her voice. So what should I do to get our relationship back on track? Reply to this Question
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reader, Inallhonesty... +, writes (1 September 2010):
 Don't take it personal hun, she must be really stressed out. Give her time. Don't hover or make it obvious that you're waiting for her.
Be there for support. Ask if there's anything you can do. Are you in any of her classes? If so, help her study or proofread a paper for her, lighten her load where you can. That can be time spent with her and I'm sure she'll appreciate the fact that you care enough to help her out.
On the other hand, if she just wants the time to herself to really focus, then maybe you should disappear for awhile. Understand that the stress will pass and she'll be back to pick up where you two left off :) Hope I helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): just give her some time to destress.....she has sooo much on her back with school. talk to her about it and see if she even wants to continue the relationship, she might not have time for a boyfriend right now. but try talking to her about her classes and ask her if she wants to take a night off from her stressful life and have a fun date with you
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