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writes:okay guys I need advice, my little sister just got here heart broken she is fifteen and this freakin a-hole played her they were on and off for the past year.. and he really made it seem like he really did change but hey how many of us have fallen for lies like that??? now I hold her and hug her trying to make her feel better but for the first time I really don't know what to say or how???? it has happened to me but she is a baby 15 all I want to know is what can I do or say to make her feel better???? please help??? Reply to this Question
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reader, okland  +, writes (1 September 2010):
its really sweet that your worried for her, exactly how a brother should be. but unfortunately everybody gets there heartbroken once in a while. show her that there are other fish in the sea and just keep saying positive stuff to her as she may be feeling a bit low and insecure. just be there for her and do what your doing x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): Just be there for her...Sometimes there is nothing really you can say, because she needs time to slowly work through it herself. It's just one of those things she has to learn in life.
Make sure she knows you are there, which sounds like you already did, and remember how u felt in the situation. Just love and cuddles. Maybe take her out on one or two girly trips or something to help take her mind off it. Lots of encouragement and telling her she will feel better again, even though it's a horrid feeling now
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