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writes:Okay, so I hope this doesn't sound like I'm desperate or looking into things too much... But this is my dilemma...Basically I've known this guy for a while (I never really spoken to him much though) but not the weekend just been but the weekend before I was at a small party where this same guy was. I've always thought he was attractive but never had the guts to speak to him much. Anyway, that friday night after a few drinks we got talking and hooked up (nothing R rated we kissed and shared a bed together nothing more)So since then I spend the sunday morning with him, as well as staying at his place during the week, and staying at his again the weekend just gone. When we are together he is so lovey dovey always touching me and kissing me and playing with my hair. (We have slept together) he even has taken me to dinner and to get lunch and the movies.So my theory is that I feel like he's into me its not just like he is using me for sex. But the only thing that's confusing me is that he mentioned he doesn't want a relationship... I asked why and he said he just likes space and doesn't do good in relationships... Its weird though. When I'm with him its not like he is just interested in sex. I genuinly believe he likes me but I don't know where this is going :S Help!I've had my heart broken from my first long term bf. So that's why I'm so overreacting maybe and looking into thigs too much? Just after a bit of advice...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 September 2010):
If he has said that he doesn't want a relationship because he likes his space, then he's must likely looking for a FWB, which is marginally better than being used for just sex. If you're looking for a committed, full on relationship, then I think you're looking at the wrong guy.
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reader, Gangsta204069  +, writes (1 September 2010):
I don't know why but I've been thinking About
this question for a while...
Anyways I'm wondering why not just talk to him for a while somewhere and ask him if he wants to be your bf or just a friend cause he can't say duno he has to say on or the other.
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