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writes: Is it normal that I sometimes have strong sexual dreams and longings for my ex wife? We have no chance of getting together, and we've joked about a hook up, but I dont see it happening. And our sex life was pretty average...so why am I having these intensely erotic dreams that have me hard as steel in the morning? I miss the partnership I once had with her, but not the sex so much. Very confusing...
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (1 September 2010):
 I would say that this is your mind missing her and to compensate her not being there it is creating fantasies. These are so much more intense because it is what your body would hope to experience if you were to get back together with her. Usually a fantasy is something that never actually happened or will happen which is why the sex is like that and there is no dream about the partnership. These won't go on forever but they will come and go randomly. The hardest part is deciding if you want to try to live them out or leave in your mind so that you don't take the chance of being dissapointed.
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