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writes:So Im a junior in high school now. Last year was horrible because my boyfriend of 2 years cheatd on me 8 times and left me for another girl. Him and that girl harassed me all year long. This year I was hoping for a fresh start but she still glares at rolls her eyes. I can't believe it! She needs to grow up, she stole my boyfriend and shes mad at me for it.. I just want to move on from this situation and pretend it doesnt bother me. Can someone give me encouragement to shrug it off?
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reader, Inallhonesty...  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 Lol, YouWish said it...you can definitely find someone better and let her have that cheating dog. Eight times? Wow. And all the encouragement you need is to know that what goes around, comes around. She think she's hurting you with her dirty looks. Show her you're the bigger person and being rid of him was in fact the best thing that could have happened.
It might seem tough because you're in your junior year and you have to endure two remaining years of the "happy" couple (if they last that long)...in class, the hallway, etc. Try to get your mind off of them, indulge yourself in good friends and lots of extracurricular activities. And when you see them around, smile at them...that's right, I said smile. Let them know that life is better for you. Misery loves company and they'll be confused as to why and how you're doing so well. Good Luck and good riddance to that loser.:)
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reader, YouWish +, writes (1 September 2010):
 Yeah, you should thank her for taking that cheating dog off your back. That would freak her out! You do not want to keep that guy of 2 years who cheated on you 8 times. They're both immature and deserve one another.
Don't talk to them, don't seek them out, don't follow their facebook, and if they are harrassing you, tell them in no uncertain terms that they no longer exist to you and they can go jump off a cliff together for all you care.
Why would a couple of measly weak immature cheaters have any power to upset you in the least? So you had feelings for the guy at one point. The only feelings you should have now are DISGUST and PITY mixed with a bit of relief that he's no longer putting you at risk for STD and smearing your name along with his own.
Drop them, and find someone better.
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